The Quick Answer
Gift-giving at midwinter is very old, connected to Roman Saturnalia, the gifts of the Magi in the Christian story, and St. Nicholas.
The Story
Romans exchanged small gifts during Saturnalia in December. Christians linked giving to the Magi's gifts to baby Jesus. For centuries, much gift-giving happened at New Year or on St. Nicholas Day. In the 1800s, Christmas became a home-centred family holiday and Christmas Day gifts became the norm.
Legend vs. History
The direct line from Saturnalia to modern Christmas gifts is debated by historians — it's a likely influence, not a proven origin.
Tell the Kids
“Giving gifts is a way to show people we love them and are thinking about them.”
Did You Know?
In Spain and parts of Latin America, many children receive gifts on January 6 from the Three Kings.
Try This Tradition
Try a 'one gift you make' rule — each family member makes one handmade gift for someone.